I am 26f and resident in the anesthesia branch. My work schedule is heavy. Though in some years, I will earn well though. And I barely get time for going to parlour etc. As I just want to rest on Sundays. Note I am a very well maintained girl and like to keep myself groomed, stylish. My bf 28m is a civil engineer.

He was at my place and we got cosy. I am not super hairy, but had some hair down there. After we had fun, he told me he got disgusted by the hair down there and why am I not maintaining my hygiene? Note I keep myself super clean and before we got cosy.

I took bath and applied lotions. I asked did he smell something? He said those hair looks bad and he likes me smooth.

I got irritated and said his nose hair needed to be trimmed, because they look so big and I felt disgusted to kiss him, when they touched my lips. I told him he hasn’t trimmed his chest hair in whole. They are touching his neck .

He got offended and isn’t talking to me. But I won’t apologise. He said I didn’t smell bad. Then i told him he is super hairy and he should be mature enough to understand that I am not a p**n star to be hairless all the time. Did I take it too far? Though this morning he has trimmed it all lmao.

Though I like chest hair when they are not coming out of your shirt buttons.

Edit. People do your research. Having pubes doesn’t equate to being unhygienic. You have to keep it clean and you are well to go. And at least I don’t have back hair as well as countless hair all over the body. But I never shamed him for them

Edit two. I am not going to breakup over this unless it becomes a pattern. We will have a discussion..we have done many good things for each other over the last three years.

Edit three. Please stop telling me to breakup. I am here for yta or nta or esh. Also he didn’t call me disgusting. He said he find pubes disgusting. There is lots of difference.

We will have discussion like adults soon. I don’t see this road bump as reason to breakup. If he isn’t willing to change his attitude, I will though. I am not a pushover. But I am not someone who believes in breaking up over this.