I (F30) am engaged to Liam (M34), who has a childhood friend, Alex. Alex is the type who says whatever’s on his mind, no matter how inappropriate. Liam always defends him, saying “that’s just how he is,” even when Alex makes subtle digs about my past. I used to be a dancer, and Alex clearly looks down on me for it.
When Liam and I found out I was pregnant, we shared the news during dinner at his parents’ house. Alex was there too. Everyone was excited, except Alex. He stared at me the whole time and then walked up to Liam and said, Three words, get a test.
I was shocked. So was everyone else. I asked him to repeat it, and he tried to backtrack, saying it was a joke. But I wasn’t having it. I told him he was uninvited from our wedding and that accusing me of cheating was crossing the line.
Alex called me dramatic and left. Later, Liam and his mom said I had a right to be upset, but uninviting Alex was too much. Liam insisted Alex was joking, and I overreacted.
I cried later that night because Liam didn’t really back me up. I felt humiliated in front of his family, and like my excitement about our baby was ruined.
So, AITAH for uninviting Alex?