So, this happened recently, and now I’m questioning if I was in the wrong. I (26F) was staying at my best friend’s (26F) house for a few days while I was in town.

I’ve known her for years, and we’re really close, so I felt completely comfortable staying there.

One day, I was taking a shower in her bathroom and didn’t think to lock the door afterward. When I finished, I was drying off and getting ready when her boyfriend (27M) accidentally walked in.

He immediately apologised and left as soon as he realised what happened. It was clearly an honest mistake, and I thought nothing of it. Accidents happen, right?

But my best friend completely flipped out when she found out. She was so mad, she actually cancelled our dinner plans for the evening. She said I was being careless and disrespectful by not locking the door. I tried to explain that it wasn’t intentional and that her boyfriend was very respectful about it, but she was still furious and said I didn’t think about how this could make her feel.

Honestly, I was kind of caught off guard. I didn’t think it was a huge deal, but now I’m feeling bad because she was so upset. After she cancelled dinner, I ended up going out by myself and had a lonely dinner. I’ve been friends with her for so long, and I just want things to be okay between us, but I also feel like I didn’t do anything wrong.