Making this post on a throwaway account so nobody I know find this post. I (18f) recently blocked one of my friends (18f) for being insensitive about my ex relationship and basically saying that my ex never wanted to me.

For some background info, me and my friend have been friends for around a year at this point. We have gone to the same highschool since freshman year but only got close recently. My ex-girlfriend broke up with me around a week ago. We were together for about three months. We broke up because of she didn’t want to do long distance as we are both about to go off to college.

Today, me and my friend were texting about the UWCL final as Arsenal had won and I’m a Chelsea fan so I said that I wanted Chelsea to win next season.

My friend didn’t reply to my text about football, but instead randomly said something along the lines of “That’s why someone else has your ex giggling.” I was confused, so obviously I was like girl what how do you know this. Then she said that she saw it on my ex’s story because she still follows her on Instagram. I thought she was just playing around with me as we do have that type of friendship where we troll eachother and can be sorta mean to eachother but it’s all love.

But then she kept going and said that my ex likes her coworker now (my ex’s coworker, not my friend’s.) That made me look on my ex’s story and see she made a sorta joking post about liking her older coworker but you could clearly tell it was a joke. So I texted my friend and said “Her way older coworker? As if”

My friend proceeded to say that I don’t even know my competition and that I’m actually out of the competition because I’m out of the books.

I was so hurt and didn’t even know what to say so I just texted that she’s insane for saying that. Instead of saying sorry or asking if she went too far, she just said “It’s okay.” Then she posted on her story that she loves trolling me but she didn’t tag me, I saw it because one of our other friends sent me the story.

I immediately blocked her on all socials and her number. Ngl, I crashed out to our other friends because of what she said. She knew that I was not over the break-up and still very much like my ex-girlfriend as we just broke up.

And this wasn’t the first time she was weird about my ex. When I told her that we broke up and that I was really hurting, she said that I should get over it, that there’s more fish in the sea, the relationship wasn’t for that long, and I get attached too easily. When she said that back then I told her yeah I know that the relationship wasn’t for long but I really liked my ex and it was a serious relationship for me. My friend knows about my history of not being chosen much when it comes to romance and how much that has affected me, so yeah I may have gotten a little attached to my ex but she was a great girlfriend so am I really at fault?

All of our friends told me that I’m in the right for blocking her, but after all my anger has gotten out of my system, I’m feeling guilty for blocking her. Despite us only being friends for a year we were close and she has supported me in other situations where I needed comfort and I didn’t express to her that I was hurt by her texts, I just blocked her. I’m only going to see her one more time for graduation before I leave for college. I don’t know whether to make up with her or not.