I don’t use Reddit often so I apologize if it’s not typed correctly. I (27f) went on a date tonight with my bf (26m). I’m a single mom and don’t really go out often.
He’s in a bikers club so when we do go out it’s usually to a bar or pool bar or just an outing in general with his biker buddies. Today he told me he wanted to take me out on a date so of course I was really looking forward to it.
Because I’m a single mom my babysitter charges me 50-65 dollars to keep my kiddo overnight and so I paid her 65$ to go out with my bf for our date. The plan was to grab dinner and go to a new movie that just came out that I have been dying to see for months now.
So we get dinner and we head to the theatre. The screening we wanted to see was at 11pm. Unfortunately the only seating available for it was on the very very front row so we decided to plan for the 1145pm screening.
We had about 45ish minutes to kill so I figured we could go to a quiet pub and grab a drink and just talk. We found a bar but it was really packed and so I found a park nearby and parked there. Me, thinking this would be a wonderful opportunity to become closer and talk about anything and everything. Well, unfortunately right when I parked the car he was asleep.
Snoring. He mentioned earlier that he wanted to take a nap to which I genuinely thought he was joking because I didn’t pay my sitter that much money just to take a nap. Anyways, he then was asleep for over 20 minutes and I found myself sitting there, dressed up, and playing block blast alone on our once in a blue moon date night and I found myself truly being hurt by this. So 1145 came around and I decided to just start driving home.
He slept the entire 25 minute drive back and when we got home I thanked him for dinner and walked into the house. He came in a bit later and tells me he will be sleeping in the other room because he’s upset that I didn’t let him nap on our date because he was trying to be awake for the movie.
And keep in mind I told him that we didn’t have to go to this movie if he didn’t want to or feel up for it but he chose to buy the tickets anyways. So he’s in the other room asleep, and I am watching a movie in my own room and wondering AITA for being upset that my bf fell asleep during our date night?