I am 32F and served as a surrogate mother to my 36F sister who couldn’t bear children as a result of her cancer treatments. I carried twins for her and her husband using their embryos. The delivery took place 3 months ago.

This is where it got bizarre. My sister keeps requesting me to breastfeed the twins since “breast is best” and she can’t lactate. I agreed at first since I wanted to assist her, but it is taking over. She insists I visit her 5-6 TIMES A DAY or express milk enough for all meals. I work full-time and have my own 4-year-old child to look after.

I informed her I would need to reduce to perhaps twice a day and some expressed milk and she burst out crying telling me I was depriving the babies of the opportunity at optimal health. Her husband sent me a text stating I was selfish as I “already did the hard part” and should still assist them.

The situation boiled over yesterday when I walked in and discovered my sister had created a bedroom for me and insisted I just come in to feed the twins whenever they wanted. I told her no and mentioned that formula was a perfectly adequate way to supplement. She took offense and said I was abandoning my nephews and breaking our agreement.

I left without giving them food. My mom said my sister and I should be more understanding about her situation but to be honest I feel my body is being used as a dairy farm. AITA if I wouldn’t want to be their full-time milk supply?