So i (25M) share an apartment with my friend Jenna (23F). we’ve known each other for a few years and decided to move in together last year. at first things were fine. we split rent, kept to ourselves, nothing weird.

But recently things started getting odd. i’d walk into the living room and find her ring lights on for no reason or see her heels and underwear just laying around in the kitchen.

the bathroom would be locked for over an hour when i needed to get ready, and i’d hear loud music and weird noises late at night but figured she was just having people over.

Then a friend sends me a link to her OnlyFans page. and i couldn’t believe what i saw. i’m literally in the background of one of her videos.

not like i was involved, but i walk by the living room in a T-shirt just trying to get some breakfast. she didn’t even blur my face or ask if it was okay. she just filmed me without telling me at all.

I snapped. i confronted her and she acted like i was insane for being upset. she told me i was being “dramatic,” that it’s her body and her content and i shouldn’t care. but this is OUR apartment. i didn’t agree to being filmed or being in her OnlyFans content. i was just living my life like a normal person.

AITAH for flipping out? or am i overreacting?