SIL is mad at me because I will not straighten my 1.5 year olds curly hair for her wedding so all the flower girls can match. Personally I think that 1.5 is too young to straighten her hair, it’s not good for it and the risk of burning is significant. She knew she had curly hair when she asked us so idk why now 2 months before the wedding it is an issue.

She’s upset because my daughters hair is tight ringette curls, despite it being pretty long when wet she looks like she has short baby hair when it’s dried and curly.

It’s adorable and I simply do not understand the point of changing the way she is to fit someone elses picture perfect wedding..

I will obviously put in a cute headband and wet the curls and use products to make them less frizzy but I refuse to straighten them. Is this standard expectations for a flower girl at a wedding?

ADDING! We are all white this isn’t an act of racism (THANK GOD OMG THAT WOULD BE 1000000X WORSE)! I am definitely NOT complying and hubby will be having a conversation with her tomorrow because what the hell 🤡 But yea at this point reading the comments I’m pretty ready to drop out of this shit show